Gospel Conversation - Part 21(How to Restore an Erring Believer)

 

How to Restore an Erring Believer

In the life of the church, some believers will inevitably stumble, fall into sin, or stray from the faith. The call to restore an erring brother or sister is a sacred responsibility that requires grace, wisdom, and patience. Restoration is not about judgment or condemnation but about healing, reconciliation, and leading the person back to the fullness of Christ’s life.

Here’s a biblical and practical guide on how to restore an erring believer:

Approach with a Spirit of Gentleness and Love

Paul instructs in Galatians 6:1,

“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.”

Restoration begins with humility and compassion. Your attitude must be loving, not harsh or self-righteous. Remember your own need for grace.

Pray for Guidance and the Person’s Heart

Before and during the restoration process, pray fervently. Ask God for wisdom, for the Holy Spirit to soften the person’s heart, and for healing to take place.

Address the Issue Clearly but Privately

Jesus teaches in Matthew 18:15,

“If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you.”

Speak truth lovingly and clearly. Avoid public shaming or gossip. The goal is restoration, not punishment.

Listen and Encourage Confession and Repentance

Give the person space to respond. Sometimes sin is hidden under pain, fear, or deception. Encourage honest confession and a genuine turn back to God.

Help Them Understand the Grace of God

An erring believer needs to be reminded that forgiveness and new life are found in Christ (1 John 1:9). Emphasize God’s grace, not condemnation, to restore hope.

Provide Accountability and Support

Encourage them to reconnect with the community of believers, Bible study, prayer, and godly counsel. Restoration flourishes in a supportive environment.

Be Patient and Persevere

Restoration is often a process, not an event. The believer may struggle, regress, or grow slowly. Continue to pray, encourage, and walk alongside them.

Forgive and Rejoice in Their Restoration

Luke 15:7 reminds us,

“There will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.”

Celebrate the work God does in their life and forgive fully.

Final Thought

Restoring an erring believer is an act of love that mirrors Christ’s heart. It requires grace, truth, humility, and persistence. When done well, it brings healing, strengthens the church, and glorifies God.

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