Wives, Submit to Your Husbands? Rethinking Ephesians 5:22–24
Few verses have been as hotly debated as Paul’s words in Ephesians 5:22-24 : “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.” For some, these verses have been wielded like a club to enforce domination. For others, they have been softened into irrelevance. But what did Paul actually mean? These verses only make sense if we read them in the context of verse 21: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” Submission Flows From Mutuality The Greek text does not even repeat the verb “submit” in verse 22. Literally, it reads: “Wives, to your own husbands as to the Lord.” The verb is carried over from verse 21. That means the passage begins not with wives bowing to husbands, but with a mutual call to submission for all believers. Paul then applies this ...